Back in the 1900s, as my friend Elaine likes to call it, though it was really the 1990s and somehow still sounds impressive, there was a Hallmark card featuring an older woman known for her short, witty, often sarcastic, tell-it-like-it-is way of saying things. In high school, my friend Tiffany and I would often write notes. This was long before cell phones existed, and we loved sharing cards with each other. Back then, cards didn’t cost nearly as much. When we moved to Durha